When we sense our need for attachment (which is a non-negotiable need) might be threatened by our authenticity, by being ourselves fully and completely, we suppress it.

True clarity doesn’t arise from mere contemplation; from thinking about how stuck we feel and how we might get out of it – it emerges from action.

Nine years ago, I had a draft email sitting in my outbox for weeks. Then one day—click—my finger moved before my mind could stop it. I had officially quit my job… without a plan.

What followed was a wild, beautiful, and sometimes terrifying ride into the unknown. Sometimes, clarity doesn’t come with a plan. It comes with a moment—messy, mysterious, and wildly inconvenient.